"As soon as the love relationship
does not lead me to me,
as soon as I in a love relationship do not
lead another person to himself, this love,
even if it seems to be the most secure and
ecstatic attachment I have ever experienced,
it is not true love.
For real love is dedicated to a continual becoming.
When, for any reason, this process ceases,
love becomes tedious, listless and is doomed to fade.
It decays. It destroys it self.
So what may seem like a beginning is,
in actuallity, only the beginning of the end."
L. Buscaglia