"When things are not done,
it is we who have not done them;
When there is misunderstanding,
it is also ours;
When we are in a state of emotional pain or tension,
it is we who have chosen the be there.

If we are not becoming all that we are,
it is we who are not changing,
and why we, therefore,
must suffer our own non-being."
L. Buscaglia