"The word 'judicious' means requiring judgment,
and judgment requires more than instinct,
it requires thoughtful and often painful decision making."

"Love is not simply giving;
it is 'judicious' giving and
judicious withholding as well.
It is judicious praising
and judicious criticizing.
It is judicious arguing, struggling,
confronting, urging, pushing, and
pulling in addition to comforting."
M. S. Peck